When I work with someone I mostly want them to to be kinder to themself. Tune into their heart and their gut. Not to necessarily do exactly what those places tell them to do but be conscious of what they are saying, include them in their decision making process.
I want them to notice what it is they want and feel the sense of self authority to own it.
It’s not always possible to have what we want right now, but it is possible to name it, observe what a current compromise might be and choose when that compromise can come to an end.
Ignoring what we want just gets harder with each passing day.
I want people I work with to know themselves better in all their brilliance and foibles, to understand their preferences and desires so they can create what they want in the world and be better able to withstand their challenges.
It’s only in choosing a destination that we can consciously start moving towards it. Otherwise we’re just drifting.
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